Sometimes, whats past is already past. You may regret it after saying it out but whats d0me already done. Its very hard for one party to act as if nothing has happen before. One may not mean what you said, but the tonne that you used Make others to think in "THAT" way. Communication is the most important tool that helps one another to become enermies/ good friends / couple and so on..
Always think b4 U speak if you wants everithing to c0me you UR Way..